Mastering the Art of Dirty Talk: Seductive Phrases to Ignite Desire

Choose a Girl

Tongue-tied in the bedroom and scared to cross a line? We have tips and tricks for turning your partner on without saying the wrong thing. Dirty talk is all about getting the other person to feel aroused, excited, and wanted and to say, “Yes, I want it more.”

Why Learn To Talk Dirty In The First Place?

• It definitely falls under the “Intermediate” and “Advanced” levels, as you’re about to see, but it’s a massive turn on and builds a deeper sense of sexual openness.
• With a little practice, you can soon be amping up the intimacy and passion in the bedroom by talking dirty with your partner.
• Whether you’re a man, woman, straight, or gay, you’ll find something in this book that will help your sex life shine.

Do you ever feel like just having sex without saying anything to each other has started to get boring? Most couples feel that way after a few years of regular sex too. If you tell your man, “I love your butt in those jeans” but you are not even looking at him and your body language is completely closed off, then he’ll know that you don’t really mean what you are saying. But if you maintain eye contact and are facing him and touching him while telling him what body part you’re touching or you want him to touch then it’s going to much more effective.

“I’m sure he’s tired; he spent all day on his knees.”

If you know what your girl likes, you can better tailor what you say. The dirty things to say to a girl that work the best are always the things that’ll spark the most interest in her. “I love being your little minx in the bedroom.” I’m not wearing anything under this robe, and I’m touching myself thinking of you. Let’s fuck in front of a big mirror so I can see you making love to me. I’m ecstatic just thinking about your cock every day.

Tips For Making Your Dirty Talk Even More Powerful

If he responds positively in the bedroom, send him a dirty message the next day, or tell him something kinky over coffee in the morning. Then start to make this more or a habit so that you are flirting with him all day every day. After a while, you can whisper something obscene in his ear while you’re dining at a fine restaurant or if you really want to get dirty, tell him to meet you in the bathroom. Now that you know to combine sexual tension, and infuse more intensity into your sex life with dirty talk, you can likely see where this is leading.

Just be sure to be safe, be respectful, and listen carefully. Dirty talk may feel strange at first as you pick your brain for the perfect dirty things to say to your partner. Relax a little—talking dirty isn’t an exact science, and navigating it relies more on how comfortable you are versus how much you know about it.

However, for more advanced people, there could be a role reversal of dominant and submissive dynamics or even a power dynamic shift during the encounter. We would never say these things to one another in any other context, and this is especially true if we’re verbally playing out our sexual fantasies. We’re turned on by the idea that we’re doing something “bad” or “naughty” and it’s totally healthy. So, get ready to master the language of love and embark on a thrilling journey of flirtatious encounters.

This is the beginning of a night that most of us will never forget. This act of talking dirty is usually the foreplay to physical stimulation. The problem is that most people do it wrong or not to its fullest effectiveness. In this book we will talk about the key points of talking dirty to your partner.

If you’re wanting to take it to the next level, either through sexting or just before you see her in person, try out some of these phrases. – And, if you need to feel more safety and permission to dirty talk, have a quick conversation with your partner beforehand to express your intentions. Now that you’ve got a good sense of what you can try, it’s time to test drive a few lines. Try taking note of at least one phrase from each section that feels fun for you, so that you have something spicy to pepper in at every step along the way. In our relationships, we often don’t maintain this dynamic. That’s because there are so many more parts of us than just the sexual being.

If you’re unsure, listen to Quinn’s audio erotica for insight into how others talk dirty. Quinn’s playlists offer real-world examples of how to sound sexier to set the tone for your own sexual adventures. You can even listen with your partner(s) for inspiration.